Facts and "Alternative Facts"

I have reviewed the intended destinations to be explored and to Vietnam and myself, everything is factual and genuine and true to its meaning. The problem is the lack of "alternative facts" , causing much of the anxiety and "suffering" so to speak.

Okay, here is the fundamental issue. You guys have the funds and resources, I don't operate it and I am being told about it virtually every day. Should I really care about it? Let's just say I care, is there anything I can do about it? 

Sometimes too much talking doesn't get the job done, it merely turns into a "talk show". In the end, it is just about talking about it and nothing else. It doesn't carry any substance or mean anything in particular. This is something I have to be very honest about. 

I am interested in some place or some things/people doesn't mean other people have to love or like or buy into it. This is why we are different people. I cannot be someone else I am not, but I can work with someone else (of my choice and permission).

From the beginning, I have emphasized the whole journey is about MEANING. It is not entirely about being cheap, going on a trip just because of leisure and relaxation, and not about showing off or making fun of anybody. It is to clarify certain things with some people (and what you understand will depend on who you are, so to speak). Of course, not everyone will like the outcome or the answer so to speak, but I'm fairly pragmatic and will only take reasonable and calculated risk (never all-in).

So if I'm not working with you, you are on your own. But we can be friends, and check each other out from time to time. No one can be too greedy and have everything in life, that is a myth. There is no point crying over spilt milk. It is never about money. It has to be fair and allow for different groups of people to explore/navigate and work things out with each other. And not necessarily about buying up everything and never buy only for the sake of buying (then often there will be buyer's remorse).

I hope that kind of clear things out a bit more. Do what you can and try as hard as you can. That's life, and no need to compare apple to apple or orange to orange. I have more autonomy than most.